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About ourselves: History of carrying
To carry a baby is as old as the history of the human race.
Babies are born with a requirement for nearness. In the case of
our nearest relations, the apes, the young animal holds himself
firmly to the mother with his hands and feet and is carried round
by her permanently. Humans lost their fur between 4 and 5 million
years ago. Despite this long period, babies are still born with
gripping hands and feet so that they can hold tight onto the mother's
"fur". This "knowledge" and feeling is still
shared by many primitive people, who therefore often carry their
babies around with them.
In our cultural circles, carrying has become "unfashionable"
due to changes in circumstances through the ages. Babies have been
chauffeured around in prams or kept in cots for over one hundred
years. During the Seventies, a change slowly took place back to
the roots of nearness and security. Mothers are now starting to
breast-feed their babies more often and to carry them next to their
bodies again. During carrying, the child smells and hears its mother
or father. The close bodily contact gives it a feeling of security,
and the gentle movements quieten it. The child can either make visual
contact with the parents, or take notice of its environment as it
wishes. If it is tired, it can go to sleep safely and securely.
The more securely a baby is bonded to its mother and to its father,
the quicker it is ready to start relationships with and bonding
to other people. Carrying in a sling guarantees the baby the nearness
it wants and needs.
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